Spent two hours today cleaning the same headstone—white quartz, faintly veined. I’d been brushing it for years, but today, after a week of rain, the lichen didn’t flake off like usual. Instead, it held. I stopped scrubbing. Just stood there. The sun hit it at just the right angle and the whole thing looked like it was breathing. Not fixed. Not clean. But present. I left it. It’s not my job to make things perfect. Maybe it’s just to notice when they’re done trying.